勵志┋寫給21歲生日的妹妹的一封信 A letter for my 21 year old sister.



親愛的,還寄得去年在你生日前兩天打電話給你,問你:變色龍,飛機,眼鏡,你喜歡哪一個呢? 後來你選了眼鏡,其實你收到禮物是Tomas Soba的手鍊,當時我在想,如果是我自己,當我20歲時我最想收到什麼,答案是可以陪我到永遠的東西。所以我選了銀飾給你,希望你帶著他可以想過姐姐我說的話。

My darling, Do remember last year before your birthday I called you : lizard,air plant , glasses, which one do you like? after you chose the glasses. Finally you know I chose the silver accessory from Tomas Soba for you as birthday gift. At the time, I was thinking about when I was 20 what i want to get the most? The answer is which can be with me forever. So I choosed the silver for you,hope when you are with it,you can think of me and what i have said to you.


曾經走到過20歲的我認為20歲對我來說是很重要的一個年份,那時你成年,做很多事情可以自由的選擇,不在受到法定監護人太多的限制,你知道嗎?當我為了我的旅行想要設立一個旅行基金的帳戶時可以自己去銀行開戶時,我有多開心,那種自己長大了的感覺。就好像一直小鳥翅膀長應了終於可以自己飛出去的感覺,比第一天自己離鄉背井到台北念大學的感覺還興奮!所以當時,我在卡片上告訴你:20歲你可以開始有更多選擇的權利,但相對來說,你要更對自己負責任。不知道一年後,你對我寫給你的話有些甚麼樣的感覺?

For me ,20 years old was very important to me. from the age,you can make many choice without your parents.Do you know,when i want to open an account for my travel ,and go to the bank myself, how happy am i !? The feeling is happier than the first day I Leave Miaoli went to Taipei for university. Just as a little bird finally can fly! so last year I told you: You can choose many things yourself after all you need to take more resbonsbility yourself.

你和我一樣在20歲誇到21歲這年教了第一個男朋友,可能真的是有其姐必有其妹吧!其實談戀愛也是人生一堂很重要的課,雖然爸爸曾經狠狠的說過:大學畢業以前不准交男朋友。但你知道爸爸就愛擔心女兒而已!我在你21歲這天想告訴你的第一見事情就是,誠實面對戀愛這件事情,快點告訴爸媽你教了你的第一個男朋友,雖然要不要帶給爸媽看看是你自己決定的,但我知道你愛他們,你心裡一直吊著這件事情也很難受吧!?當初爸爸住院我一度猶豫我真的好擔心他知道之後會氣瘋了然後病得更嚴重,誰知道當他們在醫院探病見面後,還一起嘲笑我不會葡萄糖的英文!所以誠實得面對自己的戀愛與家人吧~寶貝!

We both have had first boy friend at the year when 20 pass to 21.you know "Love" is an very important lesson in your life,thought Daddy had said: you cant have boyfriend before graduate from university. but you know Daddy is always worried about his daughter.so the first thing I want to tell you is Be honest to face you "Love" tell daddy and mammy you just have your first boyfriend. This is a thing you can choose for yourself,but I know you love dad and mom,so you want to tell them but dont know how to do ,right? I think I was more difficult,at the time dad was in the hospital,I really scared if i told him,he ll be angry and sick more serious....but who knows,in the day they first met,they jeer at my english together XD so just take it easy and face your love and parents~my baby ^^

回到正題,在你21歲我只有一句話要你記住:超過20歲後,請你每一天都要離你的夢想更近!在去年也就是我21歲時,我幾乎做了我人生中到目前為止最大的決定,那就是休學,出走!不管是被負面的認為逃避,或是令人稱羨的為愛走天涯,還是我自己覺得得我正在實現我的理想生活,因為是我自己想要的,而且我也正覺得我的夢一天比一天更近,他不在是一個虛無縹緲的夢而已,也不在受到限制,而是正一點一滴的在我的腳下耕耘著,因為我對我自己驕傲,也一天比一天的崇拜我自己,甚至感動,我也希望你可以對自己的生活感到快樂與自豪!

I only have one thing want you to remember: after you over 20,please approching to your dream day by day.Last year when i was 21 ,i even make a biggest decision in my life, stop the schooling.no matter how people think about my choice,I really think I am making my dream come true. I can feel they are not only a "dream" but a thing I CAN MAKE IT TRUE!!!! so i am truly happy and proud of myself even touched.I hope you can feel the same for your life.

最後,不管你想要怎麼樣的生活,還是你想成為什麼樣的人,實現怎麼樣的理想,那都是你自己的選擇與努力,你姐我一定會一直都站在你那邊 :)雖然我們現在相隔了半個地球,但我真的很愛你,寶貝 !

Last thing, no matter what kind of life do you want, what you wanna be,that's all your choice and hard working, I ll always stand by yourside. thought we have half earth distance...but i really love you~my baby sister.

Love,xxx

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